There are some things in life which are very uncertain & by the time u read this line,You might have came across the same...some lucky fellows might have overcome those quite easily but some are still tackling them.....We get depressed, start chasing the reason behind this & exactly this is where we get trapped from depression to reasons & from reasons back to depression.There are two types of personalities, can be distinguished by the way they tackle problems.
Person with first type of attitude will identify the problem but instead of solving it, they will prefer to adapt accordingly & make compromise even though its major decision affecting their entire life, they will make a compromise and sit back, may be because of certain pressure or surroundings. By the time now you might have guessed the other type or you can say other side of the coin.Yes, the person with second type of attitude.These people will identify the seriousness of the problem, though it really doesn't matter for them.They will struggle,they will fight to solve the problem,no matter how critical problem is...
And I can proudly boast myself that I fall in this second category but as I said earliar both sides of a coin go altogether always & so, in that sense my counterpart will fall in the first category.Say fortunately or unfortunately...But now you might be thinking what will be the solution to these kind of uncertain situations in life.If you've traced out one thing that normally "we dont want what we've but we are bothered about whatever is out of the reach" & this is one of the root cause for problems in our life.
So the only thing I can conclude is, We can not change our destiny,though we should not depend on our fate for every other little thing, try to live life at its best & you will be happy.Take my word!!! :-)
Regards,
Rahul.D